Same-sex divorces can involve unique considerations, such as:

Certain terms may be changed after finalization, but it depends on the issue and the language in the divorce judgment or settlement agreement. Custody, parenting time, child support, and some support terms may be modified if New York law allows it. For child support, a party may seek modification after a substantial change in circumstances, after three years have passed since the order was entered or last modified, or after a change of fifteen percent or more in either party’s gross income, unless the parties specifically opted out of certain modification grounds in a validly executed agreement. A court must approve changes to a court order, and custody or parenting-time changes must reflect the best interests of the child.

Financial choices play a major role in the divorce process. Actions such as hiding assets, transferring marital property, destroying documents, or making large purchases without transparency may signal to the court that you are not acting in good faith. Falling behind on child support or spousal support obligations may strain communication with the other parent and may draw court attention. Staying current with financial responsibilities and being honest about bank accounts, retirement accounts, and debts may support a smoother case.

The courts allow modification of certain divorce agreements. Child custody, child support, and spousal support orders can be modified if you can demonstrate that you experienced a substantial change in your circumstances making it difficult to meet the terms of your original agreement.

High-net-worth divorces often involve additional documentation because they may include business interests, investment portfolios, complex property valuations or significant retirement accounts. In these cases, financial information may require support from forensic accountants or appraisers who help analyze financial data.